Saturday, January 9, 2021

2020 Goals Report

The LDS church came out with a new program to replace the existing youth programs, effective January 1, 2020. The new activities program is called "Children and Youth". The purpose behind it is for youth to strengthen their faith in Jesus Christ, and to help them progress in different areas of their life in order to meet today's challenges. It is based upon this scripture: "Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man" (Luke 2:52). The objective is for youth to create a goal in each of these four areas: Intellectual, Physical, Spiritual, and Social, and to constantly be striving to attain their goals. When one is accomplished, a new one can be set. We already made goals as a family each year, so this new program aligns perfectly with our family's tradition. 

At the beginning of January, we examined our goals from last year, and made new goals for the new year in each of the four categories.  


Kala's 2020 Goals:
Spiritual: Go to 3 new temples - No (the temples closed down in March)
Physical: Get weight under 200 pounds - Yes
Intellectual: Take photography class - Yes
Social: Host a game night in summer and winter - Yes

Kala's 2021 Goals:
Spiritual: Read the Doctrine and Covenants
Physical: Get weight down to 190 pounds
Intellectual: Take 1 credit class to renew teaching license
Social: Deliver goodies to someone each month
Personal: Donate blood 4 times



Josh's 2020 Goals:
Physical: Get weight under 200 pounds - No
Spiritual: Read the Book of Mormon - No
Intellectual: Learn more Spanish - No
Social: Go on a camping or hiking adventure with someone new - Yes

Josh's 2021 Goals:
Physical: Weight 210 or less
Spiritual: Read the Doctrine and Covenants
Intellectual: Study for (and pass!) Pesticide Applicator test
Social: Hike Freeman Peak with someone
Personal: Buy Mini Cooper



Jonah's 2020 Goals:
Spiritual: Read the Come Follow Me lesson every week - No
Social: Go golfing with someone new - Yes
Physical: Go skiing on a new run - Yes
            CHANGED TO: Do push-ups every day - No
Intellectual: Get straight A's - Yes

Jonah's 2021 Goals:
Spiritual: Share Book of Mormon with someone
Social: Go golfing with someone new 
Physical: Bench Press 170 lbs. 
Intellectual: Read 10 books
Personal: Hair won't get cut



Micah's 2020 Goals: 
Intellectual: Read 10 books - Yes
Social: Have 3 get-togethers with friends - Yes
Physical: Qualify for state track - No (spring track got cancelled in March)
            CHANGED TO: Do core exercises 5 days a week - No
Spiritual: Invite 2 different people to church - Partly (invited one)

Micah's 2021 Goals: 
Intellectual: Finish the year with an A in AP English
Social: Invite friends to go dirt-biking
Physical: Get better placing than 9th at State XC
Spiritual: Read a general conference talk each Sunday
Personal: Earn $500 for NYC Music Trip



Kanyon's 2020 Goals:
Physical: Throw shotput at least 23 feet - No (jr. high track got cancelled in March)
            CHANGED TO: Run mile in under 7 minutes - No
Spiritual: Be prepared when giving a talk in Priesthood - Yes
Intellectual: Read 2 books in a new book series - Yes
Social: Hang out with Salmon friends more- No

Kanyon's 2021 Goals:
Physical: Squat more than 200 lbs. 
Spiritual: Have a phone fast once a month
Intellectual: Take Hunter's Ed class
Social: Hang out with friends monthly
Personal: Learn to drive stick shift



Family 2020 Goals: 
Spiritual: Go to the temple twice together - No (temples got closed down in March)
Social: Have a monthly fast from social media - Partly (did it for 3 months)
Physical: Run a 5k together - No (A lot of races got cancelled due to COVID)
            CHANGED TO: Hike 5k together - Yes
Intellectual: Teach Come Follow Me lessons at FHE weekly - Partly (did it until June)

Family 2021 Goals: 
Spiritual: Teach Come Follow Me lessons twice a month
Social: Host get-togethers every season
Physical: Go golfing 3 times together
Intellectual: Make new food, family members rotate cooking on Fast Sundays
Personal: Go on vacation to Colorado

Sunday, January 3, 2021

New Years

Josh and I went to Quinn's Hot Springs in Montana for a getaway right before New Years. Neither of us had been there before. We stayed 2 nights in the lodge, which was AMAZINGLY comfortable! Our lodge was right by the river, and it had all the amenities: satellite TV, internet, an amazing shower, a comfortable king bed, and a small kitchenette. They have two restaurants on site: one more upscale, and other was more casual. We ate at both while we were there, and the food was delicious! We loved the set up of the hot pools, too: there was 6 pools next to each other, with short walls in between each, and the pools were all varying in their temperature. They were building new pools right next to them too, so there will be even more the next time we go. We absolutely loved the experience, and hope to make this an annual tradition!

Josh ordered the Prime Rib the first night.

I had the meatloaf. It was divine!

We soaked the first night after dinner. It was so pretty!


Our lodge room... I loved it SO much!

On Day 2, we lounged around all morning and then
soaked in the afternoon. There wasn't many people
soaking at that time, which was nice!


Our view of the river before dinner

On the second night, we ordered hamburgers


Our view of the river after dinner

On Day 3 (New Years Eve day), we soaked
in the morning before checking out. 



We loved the location of it!!

The lodge was so inviting! I didn't want to leave!

We drove through St. Regis on our way home, and the snow was thick!

When we got home from our Quinns' Hot Springs getaway, we got ready to host a New Years party for a bunch of teenagers. Since there was no church youth activity on New Years this year, and Josh's parents didn't host a family get-together (for the first time in our marriage!) to play the radio trivia game (since Cope retired from doing it), we decided to have a party at our place for Jonah and Micah's friends. I cooked a bunch of appetizers and baked several goodies, and the boys helped clean the house. The party started at 7:00. As the kids kept coming, they spread themselves out into the open spaces in our house: some played the Wii in the family room, some played the Xbox in the living room, and some played board games and card games in the dining room. At one point, we had over 25 kids in our house!! Some of them left at 10pm to go watch the free movies at the theater for the Drug Free Youth activity, and some went driving around, but the majority stayed. At midnight, we lit sparklers and fireworks from what we had leftover from July 4th. I ended the party at 12:30, kicking out the last few stragglers. Overall, it was a success, and it was fun for me to have so many kids at our house!



Anthony was our first guest!












Happy New Year! Here's hoping that 2021 is better than 2020!!!

Thursday, December 31, 2020

Tolman Top 40 Hits 2020

2020 was such a bizarre year!!! With the onslaught of COVID-19, our world was totally changed overnight, and the aftermath of its effects will haunt us for years, I'm sure. There was some good things about this year, though--like having all 6 of us at home this spring (since in-person school was cancelled for all 4 boys), and spending all the holidays throughout the year stress-free at home, and getting a lot of projects done outside around our home, and having church at home. Basically...we did stuff at home! Which isn't always bad--we were very grateful for our home and the respite it gave us from the chaos in the world this year.

I was going to add a family photo to this post, but I just realized I didn't take a single family photo this year...how weird! I have some photos with all of us except Ammon, and a lot that I took of everyone else but I'm not included in them...I can't believe for as much time as we all spent home, that I didn't ever think to have an impromptu photo session! My brain was really not with it for most of the year!! Ugh! Oh well...this is the last family photo we took before COVID hit, at the twins' high school production of Beauty and the Beast during the second week of March (before our lives drastically changed!): 

Anyway, I asked everyone in the family for their favorite memories of this past year, because I like to reflect at the end of each year what we were able to accomplish and add the items to our annual list of our Top 40 Things. And even though our year was plagued with the pandemic, everyone was able to contribute to the list with some of their favorite things that happened, which is a good thing! 

Tolman Top 40 Hits of 2020
(in chronological order)
1. Kala seeing Seussical at Hale Theater with Amanda
2. Micah running at Simplot Games and getting a P.R. of 4:53
3. Kala seeing a Broadway play before theaters closed
4. Micah & Jonah participating in the Beauty and the Beast play
5. Installing a frisbee golf course around our home
6. Buying and playing corn hole all spring
7. Ammon's formal dance at the CDA Casino
8. Celebrating Easter at home
9. Josh loved having just one job all spring
10. Jonah golfing after work with Wyatt
11. Josh & Kala Jeep camping for Mother's Day
12. Josh & Kala's flight to the Flying B Ranch
13. Josh & Kala riding the motorcycle to Riggins and back
14. Buying a new camp trailer
15. Jonah dirt biking up to UP Lake with Tyler and Nathan
16. Josh & Kala Jeeping date with Phil & Darcy
17. Buying a hot tub
18. Josh & Kala sleeping under the stars at Horse Creek
19. Tabbi's visit over July 4th
20. Kanyon staying with the Entrikin's for a few days 
21. Tubing down the Salmon River with the Judy family
22. Josh & Kala visiting Ammon at his summer job in Victor
23. Josh & Kala riding the motorbike through Grand Teton Nat'l Park
24. Soaking in our new hot tub with Amanda & the Judys
25. Family camping trip & dirt biking in Pahsimeroi
26. Family Vacation to Zion Nat'l Park
27. Kala performing in the Mud Lake Fair Parade
28. Ammon passing his PAT at Sand Creek course in I.F.
29. Jonah & Micah's friend hiking trip to Copperhead Peak
30. Ammon camping with friends in the Coeur d'Alene area
31. Josh & Kala camping at Meadow Lake
32. Josh motorbiking with friends Matt & Greg
33. Ammon hiking Moscow Mountain with friends
34. Micah individually medaling at District XC 
35. Jonah playing in the pep band at football games
36. Micah medaling with a new P.R. of 16:32 at State XC
37. Going to Fairmont Hot Springs at Thanksgiving
38. Kala looking at Christmas lights with Grandma
39. Christmas Eve party with friends
40. Josh & Kala's trip to Quinn's Hot Springs over Christmas Break

Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Christmas 2020

 Christmas Eve:

I finished wrapping all the presents the morning of Christmas Eve! I don't do it all month long, because I want to make sure each boy has about the same number of gifts to open, so I have to wait until all the gifts are purchased, because some boys only get 1 or 2 things due to the cost of the item, but some get 5 or 6, so I have to group some together.


There are some movies that we watch together EVERY Christmas season, including Elf, National Lampoons Christmas Vacation, and A Christmas Story. They're classics that always bring laughter!

For the past 10 years, the Linger's have hosted our friend Christmas Eve party, but they moved into a smaller house this year and couldn't host. Originally, we thought the tradition would just end, but then I got talking to our neighbor Camille with an idea that the adults could be at one house, and the kids could be at the other, because neither one of us has a home large enough to host us all, either. Ultimately, after several ideas circulated among us, I hosted the event. It was a tight squeeze in our house, but we all fit, and we had a great time! Everyone brought food, and after the meal, the adults played games in the dining room, the kids played in the family room and living room, and I even got out barbies for the little girls to play with in Kanyon's room. The Hobbs' were visiting family in Leadore, and we missed them, but the Williams', Oliversons, Lingers, and Dustin & Chris Jones were able to join us. It had a different feel than when we were at Lingers, but it was cozy, and it felt comfortable to be among friends. Everyone got along really well, which was awesome! The ladies were hoping this would be the year to beat the guys, but alas, it didn't end up that way! We played Wits & Wagers as couples, and then Buzz Word and Codenames as boys vs. girls. The party ended about 11:30, except the teenagers played the XBox until after midnight! It was a fun night, and I'm glad we kept the tradition alive!









After everyone left, the stocking were placed under the tree with care, in anticipation of the Christmas morning that soon would be there!

Christmas Day:

We all slept in a little bit, except for Micah who went down and did chores for Grandpa since he and Grandma were gone to Boise to visit Gideon & Alysa for Christmas. Now that the boys are older, nobody is up before dawn, which is nice to be able to sleep in, especially after being up late the night before! We started the day by eating breakfast, courtesy of Josh! He cooked us French toast, bacon, and we had eggnog too (my favorite winter drink!). Then the boys opened their stockings and saw what Santa brought them (the unwrapped gifts), which this year was just flavored milk from Gossners!






In mine & Josh's stockings, we gift each other scratch tickets, and we gave Ammon a few too, so Kanyon and Ammon helped us scratch them off before we moved onto unwrapping the gifts. I was the biggest winner this year--Josh's scratch tickets hardly amounted to anything, but surprisingly I got about $50 worth, which was exciting for me!  


The boys each got one main gift from Josh & I this year. Kanyon got a Nintendo Switch (a hard-to-find item, and one that he wanted last Christmas, but has been patiently waiting for!). Micah got a new suit jacket for church. Jonah got arrows and target. Ammon got new snowboarding boots and goggles. Ammon gifted Josh a new sweater with a 1/4 zipper that he loves! And Josh gifted me a new set of pots and pans, which I absolutely love! My old ones were trashed! I shrieked and cried when I saw them because I was so happy!















Usually, I have the boys arrange their gifts into piles, and I take their individual pictures with all that they got, but nobody wanted to do that this year! I know the mess after Christmas looks like everyone got a lot of stuff, but in actuality, because their gifts are getting more expensive the older they get, they're getting less items. Except for Kanyon's Switch system, nobody got anything that was really fun to play with on Christmas either, so I bought a few family gifts that we could do together over Christmas Break. I bought the movie series Rambo to watch (which unfortunately I didn't realize was on blu-ray until after we opened it, and we don't have a blu-ray player), the card game Exploding Kittens (which we only played once because nobody liked it), the board game Blank Slate (which was a hit!), and a new puzzle, reminiscent of the restaurant Sparky's Garage where we went over Thanksgiving Break (we usually do at least one puzzle together over Christmas Break). 

Josh got a large stash of Reese's this year--his favorite!

My new pots & pans collection, with new serving spoons, too!

We've been collecting gnomes in our yard for years, and gnomes
are in-style right now for home decorations, so I bought several
to add to my Christmas decorations. They're SO cute! 

We got started on the puzzle that morning. Ammon is my puzzle boy, and he and Micah helped me start sorting pieces and get the outline done. It was a smaller puzzle than normal--usually I get a 1,000 piece one but this one was just 750 pieces. When Ammon took a nap, and then left later that evening to visit friends, Micah was determined to keep going, and he finished it by that night!  



We ate our traditional Christmas meal later that afternoon around 3:00. Grandma Parsons joined us for dinner (she arrived a little late, and we weren't sure if she'd come, so we took the picture without waiting for her). We ate ham, potatoes au gratin, cream corn, orange/coconut salad, rolls and eggnog mixed with ginger ale. It was delicious! It's nice to spend Christmas day at home, without an agenda or schedule, and we can just hang out and do what we want, eat when we want, and sleep when we want! 




Christmas Break
Christmas was on a Friday this year. The Sunday right after Christmas, we wore some of our new gifts to church. I received some new earrings from a friend that I wore with my Christmas dress. Josh wore his new sweater (which was SO comfortable), and he matched with Jonah! Micah wore his new suit jacket, and he looked so handsome!



We took Grandma with us to see the new movie "News of the World" that night in the theater. It starred Tom Hanks, and was set in the late 1800's. It was a good film, and we all enjoyed it! Movies have been slow releasing, due to COVID closing theaters across the U.S., so we were so glad to be able to go to the theater again as family--it's something we've done for many Christmases together!

We took the boys sledding on the 28th, another activity we like doing together every Christmas Break. There wasn't a ton of snow, but we hoped the recent snowfall would be enough to sled at Lover's Lookout. It was a bit bumpy on the west side of the hill, but was manageable. The east side was more slick and less bumpy, but also more dangerous! Ammon biffed it hard on the east side, and hurt his tail bone when he hit a rock after flipping his sled near the bottom of the hill. Unfortunately, his cell phone was in his pocket, and it cracked the screen badly when he hit that same rock, which bummed him out because it was a new phone, less than a month old!

They're almost all the same height now!








I went sledding, too! 

That night, Amanda and Lance came over and played games with us. We played Blank Slate and Cover Your Assets together. It was fun to hang out with them! Amanda gave me a personalized sign for my classroom that she made with yarn. I love it! 


Unfortunately, although it only looks like we are all fun and games over Christmas Break, there's usually some work involved, too, and this year was no exception! Josh usually works on trimming trees at the golf course over Christmas Break, and the boys help him haul wood. His trimming projects weren't as big this year as last year, but he did have the boys help haul some wood home and stack it, and they also worked on splitting and stacking some of the other wood they cut this fall, too. Josh was also kind enough to change my headlight on my car before we took a little New Year's trip to Montana. I'm so grateful that he's able to mechanic our vehicles and ATV's! 


Although Christmas Break wasn't as long as some in years past, I really enjoyed the time at home with my family. It was very casual, but we also had some good memories with our friends and family!